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What's
the Harm?
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Harm
to the Users Family and Society
Like
a stone thrown into a pond, the ripple effect of one life flows out to
impact the world around it. What we think and do makes a difference. That’s
why pornography affects not only its immediate victims and users but families
and society at large. The below discusses three harms to families and
our world caused by pornography use.
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Pornography devalues the worth and personhood
of human beings
Many studies have shown that longterm exposure to pornography makes
men less sensitive to the dignity and rights of women. Further, the
viewing of child porn encourages men to view children as sexual objects.
How could it be otherwise? For further information on how pornography
degrades attitudes towards women and children, click
here. (Note: this will take you to a page of website victimsofpornography.org). |
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Pornography use damages intimate relationships
Many marriages and other intimate relationships have been destroyed
by pornography use. One reason is that a man obsessed with idealized
images of “perfect” women will have lessened attraction to a real-life,
imperfect woman. Another factor is that pornography can distort and
pervert personal sexuality. For some men, pornography has become so
much a part of their “arousal template” that they can’t make love
without it - either physically or mentally. And, of course, child
porn leads one away from healthy adult sexuality. Yet another reason
relates to time and energy. A man who has masturbated for hours with
porn is less likely to make love or even spend time with his wife.
He also has less time and energy to spend with his children and friends.
For testimonials of wives damaged by their husbands’ use of pornography,
click
here. (Note: this will take you to a page of the website victimsofpornography.org).
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Pornography use causes immense financial loss
Pornography is big business. In 2001, the pornography industry took
in more than $10 billion. That’s more than the money spent on movie
tickets and the performing arts combined (NY Times, May 20,
2001, "Naked Capitalists"). Imagine the good that $10 billion
spent on health care, housing, etc. could have done. It’s also revealing
to consider the drain on economic productivity caused by pornography.
Most internet pornography viewing occurs during working hours and
at work. (Retzlaff, Eric. “Pornography’s Grip Tightens by Way of Internet.”
National Catholic Register. 6/13-6/19/00) |
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